What has 2018 taught me?
Initially, I wasn’t going to have a second blog post for December, I had anticipated to wait until 2019 before I wrote anything new. It has been a busy last few months and with winter weather going against me, it has been a hard few months. I’ve attempted to rest, read books and write more content outside of publishing. For the most part it is working, yet I couldn’t stay away for long!
It would feel odd to see 2018 end and not actually saying goodbye. It has been a year of new adventures and new challenges, surely they deserve a justified send off! So, here are 15 things I have learnt during 2018:
1. Public speaking is easier when you can’t see the audience
100% true! I have had the pleasure of giving a lot of speeches this year and it is definitely something I hope to progress further in 2019. The blurred people definitely make it not as nerve-racking!
2. Taking time out to read a book just means you can’t wait to finish the book
Thanks to my kindle, reading books has become a lot easier! I have tried to read more this year, even if this has meant procrastinating by reading a VERY good book…
3. Going trampolining with Cerebral Palsy is hilarious
I have never laughed, been stared at or fallen over quite as much as I did when I went trampolining. I would highly recommend it, but it is extremely tiring! This is definitely something I need to do again soon.
4. Sharing everyday experiences can make you realise you’re not alone
I write about my own experiences, but I often find so many people who relate to the content I produce. Common experiences allow for shared knowledge and understanding. Who doesn’t love a good disability life hack!
5. Physical limitations are often the least of my worries – other people’s attitudes are the problem.
This year I have talked a lot about stereotypes, attitudes and language around disability. I believe it is so important we talk about this and challenge issues surrounding it.
6. There is a way around everything
Hurdles can come your way and leave you feeling stuck. How will I do things now? How will I manage? You’ll be amazed what solutions you can come up with!
7. Your passion can become a career
I have been so lucky to start freelancing this year. It may not be a lot but it is a very big start! I have also had the pleasure of working for Scope as an intern and with RNIB on a placement. Dreams are possible.8. ‘Would you like to win a crocheted octopus?” is the best question I have ever asked someone
Crocheted octopi can have significant health benefits to premature babies. When raising awareness at my university I asked people to name a crocheted octopus to be in with a chance of winning it. If you were wondering, it was named Becky!
9. Using a plastic straw in public is guaranteed to make someone say: “Think of the turtles!”
If you have missed the plastic straw ban then you must have been under a rock! I use a plastic straw to help me drink, all alternatives ether aren’t as good or can be dangerous. I do care about turtles.
10. Everyone needs an electric hot water bottle in their life
They are amazing! Winter weather is never my friend and causes higher pain levels. I do not know how I got through winter without one. They warm up quickly, eliminates the possibility of burning myself and stays warm for hours.
11. Writing a blog can have a bigger impact then you think
Raising awareness is something I am extremely passionate about. It has been an honour to be recognised this year by being on the Shaw Trust Power 100 and receiving a Prime Minister’s Point of Light Award!!!
12. Using the phase ‘Cerebral Palsy sufferer’ doesn’t make me a happy bunny
Language around disability can be key, people won’t get it right every single time and that is okay. I have Cerebral Palsy and I do not suffer from it! Referring to a disability as a handicap is just as bad…
13. A camping chair is a very good second stick at a festival
I loved going to a festival! Luckily I could take in a camping chair which meant I could sit down at any point. Turns out it can also be a second stick if you fancy having a dance being amongst the crowds.
14. A yellow coat can change your life
Last Christmas I was bought a bright yellow coat. If being wobbly isn’t enough to make you distinguishable in a crowd, the yellow coat is what you become known for.
15. Things work out in the end, even if it’s not how you imagined it
During 2018, there has been many periods of uncertainly. It has probably been the busiest year and I have managed to achieve so much. It has also been a year of new challenges, unknown futures and change. These won’t disappear as we enter 2019, but I know I am a lot more prepared. Things have a way of working out, all the pieces fall into place eventually.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me during 2018 and made it a truly special year. Your support means so much and it has been a privilege to be able to share it with you all! I’ll be back in the new year ready for more disability related rambling, advocacy adventures and a good book.
Wishing you a very happy 2019!
~ Chloe x
2 Comments
Turner
You made me think. I began to go to college last year. I didn’t have the most advanced school and I had a hard time. I use the help of professional writers in the first half here. This gave me a good example of level A writing. At the moment, I have completely immersed myself in school and began to think about what will happen next. Thank you for designating the following goals to me.
chloetear
That’s amazing! Thank you for sharing 😊